Official

[Kimm]

Its official I am going to get married.

Yes I will be 34 next week and I am feeling I am finally ready. I had never been ready until now. But my boyfriend of 9 years Adam patiently waited until I was ready and we are going to tie the knot. The wedding will be in July.

Agewise I am not young to be getting married by any means but I am socially immature not just because of the stories we share here but I am.

I never had desire to move out of my parents house. Im more content here and I will stay here til the wedding.

I sing and skip with my friends at stores and malls and laugh and enjoy the movies that 8th graders enjoy. Yes going on 34. So I am immature and I know it. I will probably never outgrow those things since I havent yet.

But thats also the main reason I think that I have had no desire to get married my heart and emotions are not really 33 theyre more like 14.

I can adapt to the changes to an adult lifestyle. I have had to job and careerwise but right after work I am skipping around and openly breaking wind.

so thats just the way I am.

But I have been working on the things that come with planning a wedding and have not used the sites I havent used facebook or anything much lately either.

But I have long been a Lewasite person and this needed to be said here as well as other networks.



I will post when I am online but I dont know how often thats going to be.

[Phil]

Congratulations Kim. I always say there should never be a clock put on anyone for marriage. Its all about when you're ready and it is different for everyone. I was 25, Alan was 30 and my sister was 22. So far we all have good marriages but its not about how old you are. Its about how ready you are and if you have found the right soulmate Its bad that some people are pressured into marriage because of age.

It does happen though. I have known a lot of people like that

I also think you're not as immature as you say you are. Just because your humor might be a bit young for your age, you are responsible and you attend to the things that matter. I am sure you will do well.

[angel607]

Kimm I think you are very mature. it's great to see people out there just living life in the moment and enjoying it. I fart all the time and my one friend does it with me all the time also. that's just one of the reasons we get along so well. congratulations on getting married I am so happy for you.

[Antonio]

Congrads Kim but nothing wrong with growing up and there is more to it than cutting down on farting for a laugh.

I recently met a beautiful young woman last summer who is in school about to graduate, on her way to a good career, she motivated me to get my s**t together I plan on going back to school next year, Im considering joining the reserves, Im looking into a career, im planning on getting my own place next year.

Even if it don't work out with her which is a strong possibility, I know I need to have my life in order to date a woman like her, so I understand fully we can do it.