Idiot

[Antonio]

I just messed everything up with a beautiful smart girl now she wont answer my texes and she denied my facebook request word of advice never tell a girl your not looking for a girlfriend.

[Beangirl]

Awe, sad one Antonio.. Hope things get better .

[Classicblast]

You might not want to hear this but maybe this is a blessing in disguise. Obviously you wanted to have some kind of a relationship with this girl. It looks as if you were not looking to have a committed relationship but you were honest with her.

I think she might need a day or two to think this over but she should respect your desires as much as she wants you to respect hers.

[Blastgirl]

That's hard for me to comment but she should at least hear your explanation when you're trying to offer one.

[Demona]

Well, what's the whole story here? Was it a strictly friend relationship, or was there more to it? If it was the latter, and you weren't honest from the get go, then she's got every right to be pissed.

[Kevin]

I've used this tactic to get a girl to leave me alone. I can attest to its effectiveness.

[Antonio]

I agree with everyone here and thank you for your input, but Im at fault for being an idiot, I met her last year around this time she gave me her number and we had alot in common, I told her a couple of months ago I wasnt looking for a girlfriend and she been acting funny ever since then she been acting distant and I never persued her friendship like I should have ,and recently she hasnt answerd my texts and she denied my facebook request I feel bad.

[Jason O'Lewa]

why dont you send her a mesage on facebook form and tell her just what you think how you have changed your mind
be understanding if she has moved on though fair enough is what it is if it has been a lot of months
but you can force your message through and at that point you voiced your appeal thats all you can do

[Antonio]

Good idea Jason I think I'm gonna do that, Im gonna wait a couple days before contacting her on facebook if that dont work Imma try calling her and if that dont work I will have to accept the cirumstances.

[Kevin]

If I were you I wouldn't be constantly trying to contact her. Call her or send her a message saying how you feel, and leave it be for a while. If she wants to contact you after that, she will. Send message after message, text after text, voicemail after voicemail will just annoy her.

[Phil]

I hope this works out Antonio. I think everybody already said what I would have on this.

[Mahnarch]

Antonio! There is only one possible way this should continue.

You must dress up as a lady and become the "New Girl in Town" and become this girl's new BFF.
Then you can get close to her and find out her true feelings during "gossip time".

Throw in a few instances where you forget that you're in lady clothes for good measure.

And, in the end, some circumstance has you being disrobed or recognized and it all........works out in the end!!
It's sure-fire!


Post pics of the adventure, please.


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Also, if you told her you don't want a girlfriend then why are you pursuing her, now?

Oh, and a warning; Pretty girls are usually high maintainance - so, that can be a deterrent to ease your heart-break.

[Antonio]

Yea Phil Im waiting it out I dont want to be a bug by contacting her ever day, but one of the problems was I never contacted her enough I probably text her once a week, and Mahnarch I have no idea why Im pursuing her I think I just want a friendship with her either way I gotta be a man about the circumstances.

[Mahnarch]

You mean "be a 'lady' about it"... *wink wink*


I want to see pictures of Mrs. DoubtAntonio, dang it!! Heh.