Mist.
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"When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace." -Jimi Hendrix
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Post by Mist. on Nov 21, 2006 20:04:00 GMT -5
Okay we'll here is the story about 1 1/4 months ago me and this girl (Lindsey) broke up after going out for 3 weeks and I broke up with her for a very STUPID reason... and I went out with another girl for 1 month and me and her broke up (this time the girl broke up with me) and I am starting to like Lindsey again. I already told her I'm sorry about breaking up with her last time and I felt stupid because of it but I am afraid that she won't take me back. And she said that she understands and feels the same way so me and her and a few friends are going to hang out tommorow and me and her are going to see how things go from there.... Is there anything you guys to tell me so I don't mess this up. This girl is GREAT and I really want her back but I dont' want to mess anything up..
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Post by Classicblast on Nov 22, 2006 2:46:32 GMT -5
Ouuuuuuu, this can be a good one. (I can't try to up lift my image too much my wife is on too you know.) hahaha.
Serious:
I would say to look at this as a complete new start. You both had a little while apart and decided that you really wanted another chance to be together. You made the decision but you have also admitted that upon further review you made a mistake.
Lindsey has told you she is willing to give you another chance. So take a whole approach with this friendship/relationship don't apologize anymore verbally you have already done that move forward and prove yourself that way don't trip over former mistakes that's all I can suggest.
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Post by Blastgirl on Nov 23, 2006 2:27:46 GMT -5
I think be yourself and everything will shape up just right.
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Kimm
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Post by Kimm on Nov 24, 2006 8:24:53 GMT -5
I think if youre sincere she would see your sincerity and things will be fine.
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Post by Blastgirl on Nov 26, 2006 1:21:46 GMT -5
So how are things going anyway?
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Post by Hatson on Nov 29, 2006 18:55:17 GMT -5
All relationshops are suppose to be give and take. I called it quits with a girlfriend not too long ago because give and take seemed to mean I give she takes.
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Post by Phil on Dec 1, 2006 16:34:10 GMT -5
Here's the way. Being married for the last 10 years it's easy.
Yeeesss, dear. That's all you need to know how to say.
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Post by Kimm on Dec 1, 2006 19:51:22 GMT -5
Buy her lots of icecream and shell love you forever. ;D
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Post by dannyboy on Dec 3, 2006 15:50:37 GMT -5
When you're a studdmuffin like Me (and I'm sure you are) then you have nothing to worry about.
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Post by Classicblast on Dec 4, 2006 3:28:59 GMT -5
Dan the studdmuffin? You wish.
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Post by Blastgirl on Dec 5, 2006 1:24:59 GMT -5
Well come on Mist how did it go?
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Mist.
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"When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace." -Jimi Hendrix
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Post by Mist. on Dec 5, 2006 21:36:42 GMT -5
wow im back sorry... well she told one of my friends she didnt really like me and just looked at me as a friend. im moving on a friend of mine that has liked me for 2 years is finally talking about dating, well see how that plays out. thanks everyone for the help!
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Post by Kevin on Dec 5, 2006 23:02:08 GMT -5
You didn't buy her ice cream, did you?
Kimm was right. Seriously.
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Post by Classicblast on Dec 6, 2006 2:22:54 GMT -5
Lots of fish in the sea I'm sure this will work out. Keep us informed.
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Post by rylan on Dec 6, 2006 18:27:10 GMT -5
the problem is, people seem like they always need to have a GF. its not true. like they break up with one and like start looking for one right away. I was like that for a while, if I didnt have a gf I was "looking" for one. its a lot better if you dont, and just wait for the right girl to come along. besides, most relationships screw up friendships, or make it awkward.
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Post by Classicblast on Dec 6, 2006 20:28:52 GMT -5
I see some of Rylan's point, there are a number of guys who just can't muster enough self security to stand alone until the right girl comes along. I have to say I hardly dated much before I met Blastgirl. And when we did meet it was kind of a chance meeting.
I got called in by that AA team from a rookie league half way through a season. After a game I was in a pizza place with a couple guys. Blastgirl's family always had season tickets. Blastgirl came up and asked us if we were some of the new players. I was so shocked anybody could even recognize me out of my uniform that we began talking and here we are now.
But for Rylan's post it's mostly that guys can't stand alone for any period of time they need to hook up right away. I have known people to bring out their little black book the day of a break up.
And right away they fall head over heals in love.
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Post by _glitch_ on Dec 28, 2006 23:50:16 GMT -5
Buy her lots of icecream and shell love you forever. ;D If anybody here buys Kimm ice cream and I'm within a mile radius, they will die a slow and painful death. ;D _glitch_ |
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Post by Kimm on Dec 29, 2006 11:48:39 GMT -5
Buy her lots of icecream and shell love you forever. ;D If anybody here buys Kimm ice cream and I'm within a mile radius, they will die a slow and painful death. ;D _glitch_ Yeah basically. ;D |
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