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Post by Anonymouse on May 21, 2007 18:11:12 GMT -5
Okay. I'd prefer to stay anonymouse.
So I sometimes browse non-nude models (for noncreepy reasons).
And I happened across a model that looked familiar.
But there were rumors that she as sexually abused by her father.
When the modeling site closed down, I thought maybe they were true.
Not long after the site closed down, I realized why she looked familiar. She rides the same bus I do home from school. She's 12, I'm 16.
But I'm... attracted (not sexually) to her. I wanna tell her, but I'm not sure if she cares of the age difference, and the whole model thing and rumored abuse is awkward.
At the very least, I'd like to help somewhat if she is being abused, but don't know how to go about asking or finding out if she is.
There's a birthmark on her face, so I know this is the same person, not a lookalike.
Any advice?
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Post by NotStunts on May 21, 2007 18:15:50 GMT -5
Your best bet is to stay away from the girl, seeing as she is only 12. If you're 16, you should probably shoot for some one more your age. Even if you are truly attracted to this girl, it is probably best to just stay away from her so you don't get sued for stalking. Better to have loved and lost than to have had your bank account sucked dry for the rest of your life.
And if this is a joke - roflnewbBBQwtf?
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Post by Jersey on May 22, 2007 13:47:20 GMT -5
I would have to say tread carefully. I would highly suggest that you NOT try and date her because there is a four year age difference going on here. You could, however, try and help her cope with the abuse she took from her dad. BUT, I must warn you that a few things could go very wrong if you tried. 1. She'll refuse your help entirely and tell you it's none of your business. 2. She'll accept your help and you try and help her, but she could wind up hurting YOU in the end. I know from experience because I tried to help a girl get out of a bad relationship with an abusive boyfriend. She dated me, but still felt for him because he had a lot of control over her. She left me and went back to him...and as a punishment for her leaving him, he purposefully got her pregnant. She was 18. Now she is 19, living with him and their son. My advice is to be very careful if you try to help her, and avoid starting a relationship at this point. (What's a 12 year old doing on an online modeling site anyway?  ) |
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Post by Hatson on May 22, 2007 18:37:56 GMT -5
I fully agree with Jersey Life. That 12 is far too young to be a modeling target anyway.
But I also agree with Jersey Life's take on the situation and the advise he gives.
Otherwise you could jump into a relationship with both feet devote every waking moment to it and be emotioally destroyed if it doesn't last the rest of your life either way.
^^I'm being sarcastic with that line^^
I feel badly at the thought that someone was sexually abused especially by a parent. This girl could use any support you can offer but be understanding that she might not be real trusting for a while because it's hard to trust anybody when you learn you can't trust a parent.
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Post by Jersey on May 23, 2007 1:58:59 GMT -5
Thanks hatson. It's a real shame that someone can't even trust their own parent.  |
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Post by Phil on May 24, 2007 13:07:04 GMT -5
This is a difficult 1.
I think I would suggest being a friend and not bringing up the modeling site thing right away or that you know about it. That might be uncomforting and embarrassing to her. After a while of knowing eachother and being friends she might tell you anyway. At that time you can say that you knew but decided not to be too forward about this.
I think it's better not to lead on that you know somebody's secrets before you know eachother well.
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Post by Anonymouse on May 29, 2007 15:49:54 GMT -5
K so I went ahead and dated her anyways.
Things are going great and everything. She's definetly not shy.
I've invited her over to swim at my place a few times, and I've been over at her house a lot. She lives with her mom and stepdad.
I'm supposed to pick her up later tonight to come watch a movie on the bigscreena t my place.
Nobody'll be home but us, but I'm not gonna try anything.
Her parents trust me enough to let her over with nobody else here, so it's all good.
I'll let everyone know how the evneing went.
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Post by Anonymouse on May 29, 2007 15:55:15 GMT -5
oh and she's 13 this weekend
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Post by Kevin on May 29, 2007 21:47:35 GMT -5
That's what I love about these middle school girls, man. I get older, they stay the same age.
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Post by Anonymouse on May 30, 2007 0:01:33 GMT -5
Yeah, well, the movie went great. We watched 'The Covenant'. I didn't try anything, like I said. We got to the middle of the movie (I donno mayb the middle) anyways we got to the middle of the movie and there's this scne where all of these guys are ina lockerroom. So I'm already a little embarrassed to be watching this with her cause it's showed some chick in the shower and now these guys' butts/. Anywho the main character, or one of them anyways, gets kinda called out by this other guy. The other guy says 'hey fa***t what're you lookin at?' and the main character guy is like 'that thing between your legs' and I almost die in my seat. And he continues with it, too, he says 'it looks like a pe**s, only smaller'. And I'm dying in my seat, cause I'm afraid she'll be offended and tell her mom or whatever. She takes her hand out of mine and I'm freaking out and everything and she reaches over with it and PUTS IN ON MY INNER THIGH. My blood pressure is like skyhigh already from fear and embarrassment so yknow I can't help what's already happening down there and she says 'so how big is a regular pe**s?' and looks me right in the eye, not even laughing or anything jsut smiling and then she kissed me. At 1st she was just like shy and then she got into it and I started to kind of kiss back, not really sure waht to do at that point and suddenly she was on top of me and grabbing at my pants... I was gonna ask her to stop but everything kind of had its own momentum and the adrenaline took over so I didn't really have much thought processign that I could do at that moment. Everything after that is a blur of flesh and sweat and a little blood but I dont think I got her pregnant or anyting cause I wasn't in... Everything should be fine as far as not pregnating her goes. I took her home and we acted like nothing happened in front of her parents and when they asked if we kissed she said 'no' so now I donno what to do  I mean we're both minors so it's not illegal or anything but I still dunno what to do. |
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Post by Peon on May 30, 2007 5:03:33 GMT -5
That post kinda turned me on!
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Post by Nitro God on May 30, 2007 5:27:50 GMT -5
Am almost certain this is a joke. And my money is on that its Marty telling another joke like his April Fools joke.
Owell I don't care....
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Post by Kevin on May 30, 2007 9:43:20 GMT -5
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Post by Anonymouse on May 30, 2007 16:39:58 GMT -5
--CJ
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Not so secret Viper
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Post by Not so secret Viper on Jun 2, 2007 7:42:42 GMT -5
So who was the Annoying-mouse then?
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Post by texas on Jun 14, 2007 2:06:28 GMT -5
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Post by oobretoocs on Jun 14, 2007 16:58:33 GMT -5
Darn 13 year olds!
Just tell her how you feel.
She will most likely listen.
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Post by _glitch_ on Aug 4, 2007 13:23:30 GMT -5
Otherwise you could jump into a relationship with both feet devote every waking moment to it and be emotioally destroyed if it doesn't last the rest of your life either way. Darn... sounds like me. ^^_ _glitch_ |
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